kadang-kadang Allah sembunyikan matahari, Dia datangkan petir & kilat, kita menangis & tertanya-tanya ke mana hilangnya sinar? rupa-rupanya..Allah nak hadiahkan kita pelangi..:D

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Gurau ke ni?

Gurau ke camni...mama dgn abah x tau cemana korg gurau. Tp kami suspect abg yg on kan suis iron sbb ketinggian abg. Macamana boleh kena tgn ami, kitorg x pasti. Ami dtg kat mama n abah, merengek2 sambil tunjuk tgn dia merah masa mula2 kena. Ami kata, kena api. Pelik pulak cemana leh ada api kat bilik belakang. Kemudian, baru kami teringat iron. Cepat2 abah bangun n off kan suis iron. Abang dah nyorok takut dihukum. Tp abah x bising pun sbb masing2 cari sakit main benda yg dah dilarang bahayanya. Cuma bebel sikit je n tunjuk tgn ami kat abang bila dah start menggelembung esoknya...abang...abang..

ok it is just fair with this..ami gigit abg pulak. Pun gara2 'bergurau'...

gambar x berapa jelas dek kecanggihan enpon mama..tp melekat la jugak bentuk gigi ami kat lengan abg..Tu je 'senjata' ami yg digeruni abg hahaha..jgn gurau sampai cedera parah dah le kome...

Abg and diaper-less at night training

Macam muka makchu Intan lak mama tgk gambar ni hehehe..

Hmmm sapa2 yg baca mesti terkejut. aik xkan dah umur 5 tahun br nak ajar diaper-less at night. X pe..hanya kami sahaja yang faham kenapa kami lewatkan melatih abg tidak berdiapers waktu tido malam. Mama sgt cemburu dgn achu sbb balqis dah x yah pamper langsung seawal 2 1/2 tahun..hehehe tp x boleh la nak bandingkan dgn keadaan abg. Perkembangan kanak2 x semuanya sama. Mama makin memahami keadaan ini. And, I learn more because of you:D

Alhamdulillah umah dah siap renovate. Mmg mama aim nak start train abg bgn mlm n buang air or tidak pakai diapers mlm bila toilet bilik atas siap n cuti sekolah bermula. Alhamdulillah semuanya mengikut perancangan walapun agak lewat sikit mula tp mama gembira dgn resultnya.

Kita start training 27 Nov 2010. malam tu kebetulan abg pun menyuarakan - "x mo pakai pampers. Dah besar!" Wahhh kemain ayat tu..Nampak skrg abg sudah boleh menyuarakan pendapat dan kehendak diri. Walaupun with limited vocab, we can understand what u want n what u need, insya-Allah.

Setakat hari ni dah 2 hari abg berjaya tidak membasahkan tilam...tahniah! Mama kena kunci alarm kol 2.30pg utk bgnkan abg n buang air. Kesian pun ye gak sbb abg ngantuk2. Mmg mama kena pujuk2, peluk2 utk abg sampai ke bilik air. Abg mmg mcm nak nangis pun bgn tgh2 mlm tu tp bila suruh buang air, abg turutkan aja. Makcik jiran kita (abg panggil nenek midah) suruh ajar sebulan, pastu x yah kejut dah..Hopefully, by Jan 2011, u will no more need a diaper at night.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Tiba-tiba mama dapat email ni..bermakna sungguh...

For all parents out there......

This is a conversation between pencil and eraser

Pencil: I'm sorry....
Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.
Pencil: I'm sorry cos you get hurt bcos of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.
Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. :)


I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way... they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on). Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

Do i feel sad until now?...hehehe no more. Will try our best for our beloved sons future. It is just a tough hour for us now and to be test as a parent. Insya-Allah we can manage it.